To facilitate healing to an individual or marital counseling experience, it is imperative the individual or marriage couple realize keeping secrets is not helpful. In fact, it might be considered a great sabatoger to possible breakthroughs. 

It is grandly comforting to realize the Creator of the Universe can handle all of our secrets as individuals and marriages. The Lord's comforting grace and tenderness is so evident as we come forth to the Room of Grace. May your souls be emboldened to open any secret room with honesty and humilty.